I've been waiting for this...

I have been waiting for the day when Miles would embrace the idea of big brother and love on Grant without being pushed in that direction. This past week it happened. Grant was lieing on the floor and Miles tried to pick him up - by his feet, arms, whatever he could get a hold of. I explained that if he sat down, he could hold him. He immediately ran to the recliner and I placed Grant in his lap. Instead of pushing him away, he wrapped his little arms around him and gave a gentle squeeze. Awwwww. Then he stroked his head "softly". Awwww. And then he gave his tummy a little pat. Awwww. And I didn't have my camera. Argggg. If I left the room to get it, I knew Miles would throw him to the ground as he tried to follow me out the door, so I just savored the moment and hoped it would happen again. Sure enough a couple days later it did, and my camera was in the same room! What are the chances of that?

Resolutions 2009

This is probably the same as everyone's resolutions but being my previous post, I thought I should follow through. Here are a few of my hopes for 09.

1. Eat better and move more (in hopes to reduce myself to a size 0.) Ha! Well the last part was a joke. I am on my way to incorporating 5 fruits and/or veggies to my day. Doing pretty good so far. I honestly don't know if it is possible to move more than what I do with two babies in the house because I generally hit the floor running about 6:30 am and don't stop until I lay back down but my resolution is in the intentional movement department - like the exercise kind. Hasn't really happened yet. Not a good start to the year. I was going to train for some kind of race but its been too cold and babies don't like to run in the cold.

2. Being more deliberate in my relationships - with my husband, kids, friends and family - as well as with my Savior Jesus Christ. This requires time and effort,being still and not trying to squeeze in some quality time with said persons. Squeezing in quality time is a kind of oxymoron.

3. Challenge my mind. I have found that in the two years of childrearing, my mind is complete mush. And that is only after two years. What am I going to be like in 10? So I am hoping to cut this downward spiral off at the pass, and do some intellectual exercises. Reading is top on my list. Talking with adults about things other than poop and tantrums and maybe take a class of some sort. I need to wait until Grant is a little older to take the class, and I don't know what that class would be in, but I really want to.

This list makes me tired just writing it. That is the problem with resolutions. They are usually broken by now - what if you haven't started them yet? That is probably an even bigger problem.
Let's end with some pictures. That will make everyone feel better about their resolutions.

Grant's resolution is to learn how to roll over and sit up on his own.
I don't think it will be long because he gets stronger everyday.
He can get half of himself there and with a little push - there he goes! You can sit him up and he just bends in half. Maybe that is ok but I cannot bear to leave him like that. Plus the slightest breeze and he "tumples" over. (That's for you Kim.)

What? You couldn't read before the age of two. (Miles can't either but don't tell him that.)
He does love to look at books and have them read to him.

Grant started cereal the first day of this year. He took to it fine even though it is the yucky rice cereal. Miles never would eat rice cereal. He went straight to oatmeal.
Grant is quite a happy baby but I don't know who he looks like. Do you? Sometimes I think that looks just like Miles and then other times I think - who is that baby? Like in the picture above.

Miles wasn't quite so happy that morning at breakfast.

Happy Grant playing in his bassinett while I did some work.

My niece, Allison's 3rd birthday was this month. She had a princess party. She is a pro at birthdays. We have practiced this birthday thing - right MiMi?

Top 10 of 08

Since the new year is here (and I have been working on this post since last year - ha) I thought I would highlight 2008 in a top 10 list. These are in no particular order of importance. The fact that they made the list makes them important! Also, I am linking to posts from this past year. Hope you enjoy looking back as much as I did.

1. Grant's Birth - This is the biggest change in our life this past year hands down. We added another person. Though he has only been here 5 months of '08, he affected the whole year. (See #2 & 3.)

2. Preparation for Grant's Birth - Contrary to the stork myth, babies don't just show up on your doorstep. Since Grant has only been here for 5 months of the year, that means the other 7 months of the year we were preparing for him. The bun was in the oven and we had to rearrange some things in order to fit him and all the baby stuff into hazelwood house. Miles moved to a new room and we had to consolidate offices - not to mention all the junk purging I had to accomplish.

3. Pregnancy - I almost grouped this with #2 but that would not be fair to me. I did grow a person inside of me for 7-8 months of this year, and a big little person at that. That is a little different than moving furniture around. This pregnancy was about the same as Miles' term though I was a tad sicker and more tired in the beginning AND the end (i used that link because it is the best late pregnancy pic of me) was more uncomfortable probably due to the full pound extra Grant was putting on. I had hoped to enjoy my second pregnancy more and try to relish in the miracle that was forming in me, but I really didn't have time to think about being pregnant because I was chasing Miles.

4. Mason passed the P.E. exam - This is a major stepping stone for Mason's professional life. Though his work hasn't changed that much, he is now an official "professional enigneer". That is important for any future career moves. It also caused him to study a lot for a few months. Anything that requires that many hours of dedicated concentration must be important.

5. Visiting with Grandaddy, MiMi and Sam - DC, Greensburg, and here: We went on a couple major trips this year and they all involved my father (Grandaddy), step-mom (MiMi or Big Mamma) and Unlce Sam (my brother - half brother if you want to get picky). We went to DC over mother's day weekend and met up with them there. It was a fun trip and was happy to share it with them. We also visited my grandmother in South LA for a few days at the same time as them. Though the intention was to see Mamaw, it was good to see them too. Lastly, Grandaddy, MiMi and Sam came to see all the new babies here - Grant and Dylan. It was a short visit but was nice to have them!

I haven't had a chance to blog on their recent visit but here is a group pic from the capitol.

6. Miles turned 1 - first birthdays are a big deal, don't you think?

7. Miles became mobile - everything that I had figured out as far as logistics with a baby changed when that baby became mobile. I had to re-evaluate the layout of our house, and what was in the cabinet, and which cabinets he could play in - as well as my mindset of general safety. Miles fell a lot while working on walking. It is nice finally now that he is almost 2 that I can hold his hand as we walk somewhere instead of carrying him - though his following direction skills aren't quite as dexterous as the walking. Which leads me back to the general midset of safety and I usually carry him still.

8. Adjusting to 2 (very young) children - It's been an adventure with two. Maybe I should rename the blog "The Great Adventure". I thought having one baby was really tough. And it is tough going from none to one because your mindset has to change. So you would think that it couldn't be that much more difficult to add another baby to the mix. And maybe for some it is not. But it has been quite the challenge for me and that might have something to do with their ages. Going anywhere takes a lot of forethought. Cooking dinner takes a lot of forethought. Working out naptime and eating schedules - which I still have not mastered - takes work and then there is the laundry.... how does adding one little person double the amount of laudry in a household of four? But, even with the challenges of having a toddler and a baby, I can see the light at the end of tunnel and I think it is going to be a lot of fun in a couple of years.

9. Miles talking - communication is a good thing. Miles now speaks and that makes figuring out his needs much easier and cuts down a lot on the frustration level. Though at times it is a rhyming game. What sounds like sneeze and relates to eat - OH you want cheese! Right now that is the extent of my intellectual challenges.

10. Realizing the blessing of good health - we ALL had colds for about 6 weeks. That is a long time to take decongestants and a lot of kleenex! Also there are several members of our church who are battling cancer and one who lost that battle though it was very sudden and short. He was only a few years older than us and a father of two. I've told Mason that he isn't allowed to get sick like that. It has really made me start questioning why some people have to deal with things like that and others don't. It's the question of the year. I don't have an answer yet. I just know that God is always by our side though it doesn't make it any more fair. The link above has been an incredible testimony of faith and I have been challenged by Candy's attitude in this situation.
Comparing a cold to cancer seems silly, but when you don't feel good - no matter how big or small - you realize how many times you take your health and the health of your loved ones for granted. So for the record, I am truly blessed for my health and that of my immediate and extended family - and my good friends too.

08 was a positive year. We had our challenges but overall I cannot complain. I am looking forward to 09 and that brings me to my next post - Resolutions for '09.