Many thanks to my talented sister-in-law for these pics. I was laughing so hard after seeing them I had to sit down. Miles is handling the adjustment ok. The hardest thing has been me not being able to pick him up. He doesn't quite understand it when the doctor says I can't lift anything over 10 lbs and that he is 26. This was a hurdle I didn't even take into consideration when making plans to come home.
Miles is learning what it means to be gentle and soft when touching the baby - instead of whacking him and poking his head. I can see progress in the few days we have been home, so that is encouraging.
He is sharing the attention ok now but I am a little concerned what is going to happen when it is just me and the two boys at home alone. We have had lots of help from our parents but when that extra attention is gone we may have some new issues.
More to come...